Wednesday, December 23, 2009

Merry Christmas!!

Wishing you all a Merry Merry Christmas. We are in Phoenix to help Mike's mom move into a new apartment and to spend Christmas with the kids who are in the area! I wish you were all here!
We love you and miss you, especially during this season of hope and joy.

Monday, December 7, 2009

Christmas in the Southwest

Christmas is coming--today was the first really cold day. (I know, cold is relative!)

The full nine foot Southwest Christmas tree. This is what you get in the desert!


I cut down three agave stalks that grew up during the Spring in our yard. Then I cut about six feet off of the fullest stalk, (yes, this one has the most arms and seed pods) put it in a bucket and brought in our "fresh", "live" tree. It was fun to decorate, took very few ornaments, but I still have to figure out the lights!

Merry Christmas, yee haw, y feliz Navidad to y'all.

Saturday, December 5, 2009

Instant Christmas!


Well, I got out the tree, popped it out of its tube and set it up. I had forgotten just how small it is. I guess I'll go ahead and get out the regular old tree that I love decorating!

But until then here's a little Christmas cheer!

Saturday, November 28, 2009

Satisfaction

Unlike Mick Jagger, satisfaction fills our week. This week includes a Thanksgiving that lived up to its name, the birthday of our oldest son, and our 35th anniversary. I am smiling just thinking about it. I hardly feel 35 years old myself!
We came up to our son's house in Chandler and celebrated the holiday here with our oldest daughter, our son Steven, Charlie and Leslie, and Leslie's family. And it felt like family--comfortable, relaxed, everyone helping themselves to the food, wandering in and out like one big family--which we are!
Maren and her sweetheart Justin came over on Friday bringing Justino's dad's famous pecan pies. A friend of Megan's stopped in for pie. The dinner was traditional and delicious. Turkey sandwiches and desserts filled the house following the main meal and should carry on through the weekend. Shopping was moderate--no Black Friday frenzy. The brothers went golfing. The movies were all good at the mall and on DVDs. And the guys are going shooting in the morning. a
And then we are heading south and home. Wow. That sounds like more than enough for a month of fun. But Sunday our oldest son turns 31, and even though he is far away, it will be another happy day. We love him and miss him. Next year maybe we can celebrate with him.
Then, Monday we'll have to celebrate again--just the 2 of us, because 35 years is a long time, but it has gone by very quickly, and I am very happy to be celebrating with the man I love still, or is it the man I still love? Either way will do.
As if that isn't enough Charlie will be 30 five days after our 35th, and Christmas is just around the corner.
Morris and Seung Hee and Graham called on Skype and shared Thanksgiving dinner, eating their turkey in NYC while we ate here in AZ. That was just great too. It was so funny to see them and hear them and vice versa almost like they were in the room, but sitting over at the kids table. Wow.
I think I'm going to need a vacation, but right now I need to wipe the smile off my face and go to sleep. Ciao bellos. Love you all.

Friday, November 20, 2009

Home Sweet Home

View from the back door
View from the front door

Baby tortoises at Charlies, under the red heat lamp--only a few of his brood. . . .


View from the driveway into the garage!
Home again, home again jiggity, jig.



We went to Chandler, visited with Charlie. Fun was had! and now we are home. Clean sheets on the bed. Cool morning air.
Been searching on line for another kidnapping victim in the Colonias. Not a word anywhere. Nobody sees anything. Nobody reports a word. But someone is missing.
Shhhh.

Monday, November 16, 2009

Nothing new under the sun . . .


Nothing to do, nothing to do.
Put some mustard in your shoe. . .


Why would you even try that? Doesn't it sound kind of yucky and squishy? It must be one of those days.
And there it is again. That good looking solar array which is actually non functioning and being taken apart.
Why doesn't every house in Arizona have Solar Power? How about solar power now instead of health care reform?
Just a thought.

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Stop the negativity.


Well the government has one thing right, all this negativity can just bring a person down. So, I was thinking about how in some small way we, the little people could help. Take the unemployment Czar--that may not be his title, what do you think? UN-employment is negative. Maybe he is the Jobs Creation Czar, but really most people are more concerned simply with keeping the job they have than with job creation. Most people fear being "let go."
And think about it, let go has terrible connotations. The fear of falling is one of our inborn fears. Infants are born with an instinctive response to being "let go." It conjures up images of the abyss, the lifeline suddenly severed--no one wants to be let go.
We used to get fired. What was that about. Very violent. Now most of us face being RIF'ed--reduced in force. There it is again: Force, Fired. What? Is the Jobs Creation Czar straight out of the military? Really can't we come up with a less violent term than Force. Almost everybody who has been let go, fired, RIF'ed knows they were Forced from the job.
So, I think I may have the answer here--a completely neutral term that will allow people to leave with dignity: Reduction in Personnel. Yep RIP. Doesn't that sound better, more peaceful.
RIP all you who face a coming job loss (sorry).
Remember, to all the 10.2% of Americans; wait, we'd better make that 10.3%, no, 10.4%, wait--well you get the picture . . .
RIP

Saturday, November 7, 2009

Cruz Roja

Don't you think Cruz Roja could be a character in a book. Really she is the Red Cross.
Mike and I both donated blood last night. When they stuck the needle into my vein blood spurted onto the red cross worker--Miss Roja--, onto the table, and all over my nicest huipil blouse from Oaxaca. I knew I shouldn't have worn a shirt to donate blood. But, what is one to do. The poor Ms Cruz was very apologetic.
I said, No worries, I can clean blood out of white cotton no problemo. (I figured why should both of us worry about my ruined shirt.)
Fortunately that turned out to be true--the cleaning blood out part. And now my shirt is once again bright white and beautiful (except for the colorful embrodery, which was always beautiful and not blood stained.)
I am sorry I do not have a picture, let alone a before and after picture. But believe me, it was not a pretty sight. I think several people waiting in line may have gotten up and left the building! Including Elvis.

Friday, October 30, 2009

YES, It's true!

Here she is, a little beauty!! And here I am: See the car isn't all that small.
Why does Elder Wilcox look so big??

Am I having fun here? Yes I am!



Finally, after 35 years of talking about it, we bought a minicooper! So waddaya think?

Wednesday, October 14, 2009

I'm on!

Okay friends. I spent an hour on the phone with Qwest and my internet is working again. So I am back. My apologies to all my Scrabble friends (both of you) I will try to finish the games!

Thursday, October 8, 2009

"Ciudad Juarez, Chihuahua, on the border of the United States, is the most violent city in the world in number of homicides. It is followed by Caracas, Venezuela, and then New Orleans."

New Orleans??? Didn't the government rebuild the entire city and bring new life . . .

"In fourth place is Tijuana, Baja California. The rankings are based on the number of homicides per 100,000 residents."

Tuesday, October 6, 2009

Happy Birthday Mugilla and other things!

Here is San Cayetano about an hour ago--October 6, 2009 at 9 in the morning. What is with our weather--we have passed the rainy season, at least on the calender!

This is the pit BBQ being heated up before adding the beef, the pork, the chickens . . .

Here is my baby sister and her husband posing by their pit barbeque. Umm, umm good!
Now on a note unrelated to any pictures:
Happy Birthday Mugilla. I hope you have a wonderful day all day long, and tomorrow too. Don't forget, if you're happy on your birthday, you'll be happy all year! And be careful because your face will stick that way --the silly grin I mean.
Ok. Enough of that motherly advice. Get out there and enjoy your day.

Monday, October 5, 2009

Long time passing. . .

What to do, what to do. . . put some mustard in your shoe.
Lazy day here today. More tomorrow, or should I say, manana.

Friday, September 18, 2009

Target Practice







We went shooting. Killed acorn squash. Fun was had by all. Beautiful sunset.

Tuesday, September 15, 2009

Quote of the day to those who live among the living

Every one of us is called upon, probably many times, to start a new life. A frightening diagnosis, a marriage, a move, loss of a job or a limb or a loved one, a graduation, bringing a new baby home: it's impossible to think at first how this all will be possible. Eventually what moves it all forward is the subterranean ebb and flow of being alive among the living.
from Barbara Kingsolver "High Tide in Tucson"

High Tide in Tucson

New blossoms in the rain!
Pre-rainstorm cholla and bird nest. What a brave little critter!

Life will out!




June is the cruelest month in Arizona, especially when it lasts til the end of July. This is the waiting for the monsoon month. And even when the June monsoon doesn't arrive until August and lasts into September it is worth the wait.




A couple of weeks ago we drove up behind Mt Hopkins. Everything was thirsty. The road was dusty and finally just gave way to intermittent faint tracks through the cactus. But up behind the mountain we got just the lightest sprinkling of rain, and on the way back down the dusty, gray-green cholla had burst into bloom. That's the desert for you.




Take what you can get and use it with exuberance!!

Tuesday, September 8, 2009

Swine Flu ground zero

I added a new blog to my list for one reason only: So that you could look at Ash's photo of swine flu, ground zero. It is an incredible and shocking photo of the birthplace of swine flu. All pigs beware!

Sunday, September 6, 2009

Rain is falling all around

on the rooftops, on the ground.
Boy, is it ever raining,
and am I ever glad we decided to redo the roof even though the monsoon was over!

Saturday, September 5, 2009

Eye of the Storm








or should it be I of the storm???
I stood outside as the storm clouds gathered, as it grew progressively darker, and as rain began to fall. I wanted a picture of the lightning. Not too much luck. Though the lightning did manage to shut down the power. This is Jimena's tail pushing up and around from Baja California. We should have more stormy weather today and tomorrow.
What's with California? Why won't the rain go straight up your way and put out the fires??!

Thursday, August 27, 2009

We May Have Seen the Devil. . .


We drove down Ruby Road the other day to the west, off the pavement and along the border, through canyons and valleys. Beautiful country. We passed the historic ghost town of Ruby, a one time mining community in about 1903. The gate is always closed and locked. But, not this time. We backed up, read the historic sign, which says "Do not enter if gate is closed". The gate was wide open. In we went.

If you ever have the opportunity to tour Ruby, skip it. It is nothing but junk. Nothing restored, nothing worth restoring. The dirt road ends at the mine tailings which spread out like an unusually hard packed white sand beach, right on the side of a lake. The lake is beautiful, blue and clear. No algae grows in it. No water birds wade in the shallows. The only life visible was an old hippy who peered out at us from an old, fallen in house on the edge of the tailings. He had a camper and a picnic table set up on the white "sands."

This seemed too strange. We turned around and headed out. Half way back to the gate we were stopped by a man in a very old pick-up truck. Probably newer than 1903, but apparently exposed at some point to acid rain as all the paint was gone and the metal was rusting away--hard to date the vehicle accurately.

A man jumped out and came over to the car window. He was a skinny, wiry man wearing only a ragged pair of cut-offs. He was the color and texture of hardwood, maybe mahogany, left much too long in the sun. But most impressive were his hair and mustache. He had long, gray rasta hair.

Very very rasta--lots of it going about halfway down his skinny back.

His mustache was huge, also rasta.

I was amazed, mesmerized. The thought that this creature had at one time been someone's round, pink baby boy flitted through my mind, but the long fuzz growing across his shoulders and down his bony spine pushed that thought aside. A modern day Robinson Crusoe shipwrecked on an island of his own making?
I am afraid I stared as he ranted at us about trespassing and ordered us out--OUT and don't ever come back.

I wonder if repeat offenders end up at the bottom of the lake.

Scary thought!

We enjoyed a nice ride home.

Monday, August 17, 2009

The weeks in review

You should really read this blog from bottom to top since that is the way the week ran. Enjoy.
Thursday night we flew down the road to Tempe. Got in late, stayed with Charles and Leslie.
Friday, the 5 young and strong took off for Vegas. We didn't go, no pix, a whole different story. Suffice it to say that we dropped Mo and Seung Hee off at the Tucson airport at 4:45 Sunday morning, and were home in Rio Rico in time for Church, and a Sunday afternoon nap (sorely needed. )

Oh do be careful!! It is the Gorgeous Megan approaching the gorge.

Life is beautiful just north of Flagstaff!!


Then on to Flagstaff, Megan's and Sunset Crater. By now it's Wednesday!

A stop in Tucson for Birthday Pizza, Calzone and Pasta with Steven (also Mini and Justin) Steven's haircut complements of Charlie.

Back in the USA we hurried past Tumacacori National Park, just snapping a picture over the wall!! Nice picture Seung Hee!!
Of course we went snorkeling to view puffer fish, tiger fish, electric blues, star fish, octupi and sea urchins. Ouch!

The ocean was gorgeous, the water was warm, the condo was comfortable, and on the beach!

Friday we picked up Morris and Seung Hee at the Tucson Airport, then left early Saturday morning for San Carlos Mexico.


August 4th Elder Matute was leaving for home after nearly 8 months here. We held a little barbecue going away party and birthday party. A fun-for-all. . .

Lots of people came; family, old friend and new!

Thursday, August 6, 2009

birthday girl

sixty and still reflecting on the future. Megan, the purple pants are for you--the young and gorgeous look!

Sunday, August 2, 2009

Buterflies in the garden

Pipevine swallowtail on the peach tree

Tomatoes everywhere, also pipevine growing like mad this year from seeds planted 3 years ago


Still there. Poser!


Saturday, August 1, 2009

Indian Summer

The neighbors boys came down to help me pull weeds and move dirt. . . .

Then we decided to see if the corn was ready to pick. . . .
Isn't it gorgeous? I'm going to let it dry and plant some more!


Thursday, July 30, 2009

Snake in the grass

Is this a rattle snake or is this Megan planning her next Scrabble tactic? Hmmm. Hard to tell.
Click on the picture to see her beautiful little beady blue eye!

Monday, July 27, 2009

Corn at rest

Or should I say, Night in the Garden. It just keeps growing!